Immutable Laws Article
07-03-2014, 04:29 PM
What if we consider that woman live their realities through men?
Their attraction and investment causes them to ping off you as your opinion of them becomes increasingly important to them (aftermath see: girls after guys dump them). You can control this easily.
I believe this.
It comes down to how much you value her in your eyes. The higher you think she is e.g 9 the more your behaviour will alter. The same is for her, if she sees you as a 9 but in comparison to the 7 she views herself is, automatically she will become more amicable and agreeable/romantic/thought/wtvr.
I reckon this is where 'judge a woman by her behaviour not her looks' comes in to play.
Here, status/game/+1 traits matter and you league up to score hotties who will consider you above them.
This is macro behaviour/prequisities.
Allow me to simplify and say it comes down to how you treat them and essentially, your alternative options. Woman want what other women want and when they have it they will try anything they can to keep it. If she treats you well and takes care of you, you should 'reward' her lest her actions become malicious and cause bullshit drama.
This is micro-behaviour moulding the macro-prerequisites.
Also,
re: Original article: "when I’m out with her on my arm and see many girls more beautiful than her, I feel like a failure."
This will affect most social savvy guys I think who aren't thirsty. Once you are tuned in to this frequency, you already know what up in a room when you walk in with a girl who is below your league. Sure, she may be cool, great in bed or even rich but you already know whats up.
This comes back to Krauser's "you are more invested in others opinion of you than yourself" and it is difficult to overcome given the context. You know you can do better and it's the subtle reminder. I know this because I see so many guys every day who could do better and I can't help but judge. 80/20.
Their attraction and investment causes them to ping off you as your opinion of them becomes increasingly important to them (aftermath see: girls after guys dump them). You can control this easily.
I believe this.
It comes down to how much you value her in your eyes. The higher you think she is e.g 9 the more your behaviour will alter. The same is for her, if she sees you as a 9 but in comparison to the 7 she views herself is, automatically she will become more amicable and agreeable/romantic/thought/wtvr.
I reckon this is where 'judge a woman by her behaviour not her looks' comes in to play.
Here, status/game/+1 traits matter and you league up to score hotties who will consider you above them.
This is macro behaviour/prequisities.
Allow me to simplify and say it comes down to how you treat them and essentially, your alternative options. Woman want what other women want and when they have it they will try anything they can to keep it. If she treats you well and takes care of you, you should 'reward' her lest her actions become malicious and cause bullshit drama.
This is micro-behaviour moulding the macro-prerequisites.
Also,
re: Original article: "when I’m out with her on my arm and see many girls more beautiful than her, I feel like a failure."
This will affect most social savvy guys I think who aren't thirsty. Once you are tuned in to this frequency, you already know what up in a room when you walk in with a girl who is below your league. Sure, she may be cool, great in bed or even rich but you already know whats up.
This comes back to Krauser's "you are more invested in others opinion of you than yourself" and it is difficult to overcome given the context. You know you can do better and it's the subtle reminder. I know this because I see so many guys every day who could do better and I can't help but judge. 80/20.