Quote: (07-16-2011 08:50 PM)kickboxer Wrote:
Here's a solution, stop talking about women so much around your friends.
Yeah, I think this is important. I know I'm too open with my relations with women. The guys who I try to talk to about these things are either incompetent or roadblocks. Unfortunately, it's hard for me to keep the issues and complications to myself and I need a place to vent. This forum is good and all, but it's nice to be able to talk to someone face-to-face about this stuff. I guess what I need is a competent wingman.
Quote: (07-16-2011 08:55 PM)Amour Fou Wrote:
I oughta chill a bit for a while...
I've been thinking the same thing but my sex drive won't have it.
Quote: (07-16-2011 09:04 PM)Selva Wrote:
My first suggestion would be to dial things back a bit. Still approach and chat, but let that be the goal, not anything more.
I'm gonna try this. Thanks.
Quote: (07-16-2011 09:04 PM)Selva Wrote:
For me it was at 25 when I realized that my friends' lameness was holding me back. I moved on and moved forward and never looked back.
Yeah, I realized the same thing a few years ago. I moved and only ended up acquiring more lame friends. Better friends would definitely help me out.