Tip: Lead the kiss on your terms so you dominate. It's supposed to feel best if her upper lip is within both of yours for the majority of the kisses. Tease with your tongue, in and out before going for french kissing (and don't make that last too long). Light nibbling and biting can be good, and kiss her neck, clavicle, and nibble ear lobes.
One thing I've learnt over the past few months is that if I am alone with a girl (either I've invited her over, or she has me), she wants to make out at the very least. There have been times where I wasn't even bothered but after the movie or whatever she doesn't seem to want to leave, and starts giving you indicators of interest (e.g. she'll talk about whatever pops into her head, but you can tell her mind is on something else, or she'll flick her eyes towards your lips and stare into your eyes more).
It took me a while but you just have to go for it - just try and kiss her and see what happens. If you are alone together she likely wants it to.
Another funny example that suggests a rejection isn't the be all and end all is a hottie I met in a club recently (danish, 8). I went to gauge kiss interest (brushed her hair to the side, held her face) and she was like 'urrrr what are you doing??' and moved me away so I stop. 5 minutes later she kisses me and was like 'was that too forward?'. I just said no and took control, leading the rest of the kissing that occurred.
Moral: just try and go for it, if she responds great, if not and you have a good playful vibe you can play off a rejection as if it doesn't matter. Most girls will be more offended if you didn't even try (likely think they weren't desirable enough if they're insecure or think you're a pussy).
One thing I've learnt over the past few months is that if I am alone with a girl (either I've invited her over, or she has me), she wants to make out at the very least. There have been times where I wasn't even bothered but after the movie or whatever she doesn't seem to want to leave, and starts giving you indicators of interest (e.g. she'll talk about whatever pops into her head, but you can tell her mind is on something else, or she'll flick her eyes towards your lips and stare into your eyes more).
It took me a while but you just have to go for it - just try and kiss her and see what happens. If you are alone together she likely wants it to.
Another funny example that suggests a rejection isn't the be all and end all is a hottie I met in a club recently (danish, 8). I went to gauge kiss interest (brushed her hair to the side, held her face) and she was like 'urrrr what are you doing??' and moved me away so I stop. 5 minutes later she kisses me and was like 'was that too forward?'. I just said no and took control, leading the rest of the kissing that occurred.
Moral: just try and go for it, if she responds great, if not and you have a good playful vibe you can play off a rejection as if it doesn't matter. Most girls will be more offended if you didn't even try (likely think they weren't desirable enough if they're insecure or think you're a pussy).