I also think there is a big difference between infatuation with a girl when you haven't had sex with her, and infatuation with her after you have.
The former is a beta mindset that comes from lack of options and abundance. Also insecurity, desperate feelings as you mentioned.
The latter I think is great as long as it's reciprocated. Just important to control your emotions so that you are investing less of the feelings than she is.
The former is a beta mindset that comes from lack of options and abundance. Also insecurity, desperate feelings as you mentioned.
The latter I think is great as long as it's reciprocated. Just important to control your emotions so that you are investing less of the feelings than she is.