try and make your expenses half of what you bring in from the 9-5. Bank that money, or sell the new car. Younger guys are always seduced by new cars. I was. Software sales is a very lucrative industry, with a little experience, 1-3 yrs, you could be making over $100K easy. CA is full of those jobs, even in the outlier cities.
Skate shop? A skateboard shop? Thats a fun side gig, and I love skate betties and the social life in the skate scene, but if its eating into your job search and side gig maybe you should revaluate it.
McQueens advice is good about online dating. Its a crutch, and mostly a time and money suck, and the buyers remorse is there for me 95% of the time. My success and motivation is much higher when I meet a girl in person I am certain I want to pursue. Get out there and meet them in person.
Skate shop? A skateboard shop? Thats a fun side gig, and I love skate betties and the social life in the skate scene, but if its eating into your job search and side gig maybe you should revaluate it.
McQueens advice is good about online dating. Its a crutch, and mostly a time and money suck, and the buyers remorse is there for me 95% of the time. My success and motivation is much higher when I meet a girl in person I am certain I want to pursue. Get out there and meet them in person.