Quote: (05-10-2014 08:41 AM)Cheetah Wrote:
If you would have gone to another bar near the love hotel would you have tried for a make out session? What you say is I guess true that it could be a risky maneuver while it would probably increase your chances of getting her back to the love hotel instead of relying on a second date.
The bar right next to the love hotel area is not conducive to make out sessions because of its layout and because it's a "locals" bar (mainly regulars are there). So, I would have escalated the covert groping (handsies and footsies) under the table and just tried to relax and build more comfort while allowing her hamster to spin. I know the staff at that bar so I would have given them the opportunity to give me some more social proof, which I think they would have done because I had already told them in the past that I might bring a girl there. Then, upon departing, depending on the mood, I would have tried another approach to the lobby again. Perhaps I would reinforce it by going for the makeout on the street. Japanese girls, based on my experience, associate making out directly with the sex act so a simple kiss goes much further with them than it would with western women. This means that a make out is not necessarily necessary to make them understand that sex should be next on the agenda.