How do you distinguish between a girl's shit test and her legitimately not being interested? I sometimes struggle with this and it throws me off my game.
For example, the other night at a bar I approached a girl who had made eye contact with me. I talked to her for about two minutes before she said you never asked me if I was interested. This threw me off my game as it was the first time I had ever heard something like this. My game could use improvement but I'm a good looking guy so I usually assume girls will give me a chance. I wasn't sure how to respond. Any thoughts on if this was a shit test or not? The actual rejection doesn't bother me as much as figuring out what was going through her mind.
For example, the other night at a bar I approached a girl who had made eye contact with me. I talked to her for about two minutes before she said you never asked me if I was interested. This threw me off my game as it was the first time I had ever heard something like this. My game could use improvement but I'm a good looking guy so I usually assume girls will give me a chance. I wasn't sure how to respond. Any thoughts on if this was a shit test or not? The actual rejection doesn't bother me as much as figuring out what was going through her mind.