Whoa whoa whoa
Here's what you do. Build attraction, establish yourself as a carefree workaholic that does what he pleases in his spare time.
Offer to pay her flight to come see you.
She may or may not flake, but if you did the first step right, and since shes poor shes thinking julia roberts in whateverthefuck that move was called, she will be down.
Worst case scenario, she doesn't come and you're out 200 bucks or whatever.
But if you drove there, got a hotel, paid for food, and etc you'd be out well over that anyway and lets just face it
If the girl won't get on a paid vacation flight then she'd flake on you if you drove out there anyway.
Plus, its more powerful to lay for her to come to you, then for you to drive to her.
Here's what you do. Build attraction, establish yourself as a carefree workaholic that does what he pleases in his spare time.
Offer to pay her flight to come see you.
She may or may not flake, but if you did the first step right, and since shes poor shes thinking julia roberts in whateverthefuck that move was called, she will be down.
Worst case scenario, she doesn't come and you're out 200 bucks or whatever.
But if you drove there, got a hotel, paid for food, and etc you'd be out well over that anyway and lets just face it
If the girl won't get on a paid vacation flight then she'd flake on you if you drove out there anyway.
Plus, its more powerful to lay for her to come to you, then for you to drive to her.