Quote: (04-08-2014 03:52 AM)Biologist Wrote:
I know that money/status is everything when it comes to dating in China, so does that mean that all the Chinese millionaires/billionaires have pretty much swept up all the decent looking girls and put them in their harems?
no, because you're not considering the differences in traits that we find attractive. A large portion of the hot girls in high end clubs in little black dresses will be pros or semi pros, but there are a ton of hot girls that are totally ignored and looked down upon by most wealthy chinese. in fact, these are the girls who are good by most standards here.
2nd generation wealthy girls are the ones in the awesome dresses at clubs with bottles, these people suck, they're horrible, they're emotionally stunted and insanely materialistic at worst and best they're emotionally stunted people who do whatever their parents want to with no sense of independence (the show 小爸爸 showcase both of these pefectly with the two girlfriends, for any chinese speakers that care to check it out).
Working class girls are the way to go. They're appeciative without being materialistic and are usually very down to earth.
Nongs, or migrants, if you can get a cute one, you've hit the jackpot, they will love everything about you, want to get married and dote on you, and usually live away from their parents.
Because class is so important in China, a good looking girl with the wrong living permit (hukou system) is all but invisible (socially and usually legally) to the wealthy chinese.
The overwhelming majority of guys who have chinese girlfriends are exploiting this arbitrage without realizing it. if you know where to look and who to talk to, it becomes that much easier.