Quote: (06-28-2011 12:07 AM)Jersey Wrote:
Quote: (06-26-2011 11:08 PM)Vitriol Wrote:
This is why I'm hellbent on showing that social circle game is a nullity.
Could you explain this more? I've been running in a social circle (my first real attempt) of all girls for a few months now (we only hang out about 1x/month recently), and I finally hit the tipping point this weekend. Now I'm sleeping with one who wants a threesome (with a girl outside of the group) and have a date with a second this week where I am 90% sure I'll close her.
When I hang out with the group, they can't keep their hands off of me. It's just a matter of me picking which ones I want now.
Obviously, that's only anecdotal, but why would you dismiss the entire concept?
It sounds like your experience has been exceptionally good. But you mentioned you're the only male in this circle, so that's probably why. There's no male competition.
The part I bolded from the other post about the girls doing a lot of communicating with each other that is totally outside of your control is key. Unless they decide collectively that you're among the one or two highest status males within a social circle that is worthy of fucking, you're pretty much out of luck. Plenty of dudes are a part of a social circle where they're not getting anything from any of the girls.
So it basically seems to me that social circle game is:
1. Being present in the social circle
2. Leaving the rest up to luck
I think cold approaching is probably a much better strategy.