Me- handsome young gent, suited up, buttons blown open, pocket square popping
Some tall white guy shoulder-checks in the club, then refuses to let me pass, and then he yelled at me go around.
The dude was acting "hard", because he was dancing w/his girl.
I went around him, then my blood started boiling. I stopped him and CALMLY asked him "Do we have a problem? Because if you do, we can go RIGHT NOW." Looked him straight in the eyes.
He looked at me, looked at his girl. Told me "No, I was just messing with you man."
I let it go.
Usually I have about 1-2 incidents/year that guys are belligerently drunk or showing off.
Some tall white guy shoulder-checks in the club, then refuses to let me pass, and then he yelled at me go around.
The dude was acting "hard", because he was dancing w/his girl.
I went around him, then my blood started boiling. I stopped him and CALMLY asked him "Do we have a problem? Because if you do, we can go RIGHT NOW." Looked him straight in the eyes.
He looked at me, looked at his girl. Told me "No, I was just messing with you man."
I let it go.
Usually I have about 1-2 incidents/year that guys are belligerently drunk or showing off.
WIA- For most of men, our time being masters of our own fate, kings in our own castles is short. Even those of us in the game will eventually succumb to ease of servitude rather than deal with the malaise of solitude