My main travel experience has been limited to Korea and China so I'll tell my SNL stories about those.
KOREA
I am Korean, speak the language, and am proofed there, so that changes things dramatically for me compared to the situation that most guys would face. Anyway, I have had three SNLs in Seoul.
"KATE" - Met her about a week before France played Korea in the world cup. It was the rainy season so I offered to share my umbrella with her and walk her to the train station. We did that and I explained to her that I was studying/working there for the summer and visiting relatives. Afterwards, she gave me her number and told me she would cook me dinner sometime (awesome!).
We met up the night that Korea was playing France and because she was a good 7 years older than I was (I was 19 at the time) she decided to drive us around and show me her favorite spots. We began bar hopping and I went for the makeout earlier on in the night to let her know exactly what my intentions were. Five hours later, after we finished watching the game, we went back to my crib and banged.
"JANE"
Met her in a "booking" club. "Booking" is an interesting phenomenon that happens only in South Korea and Koreatown in LA. Basically guys pay a ton of dough to get bottles of scotch and food/fruits, and girls come to the venue to sit down and be forcibly introduced to men. It's funny, the waiters literally walk through the club and drag girls to your table. Then you pour them a shot and talk to them for a while. If they don't like you or you don't speak the language, they bounce. If they like you, they give you their number. If they like you and you've got game, they go home with you that night.
It was pretty simple. My cousin and I met two girls and we all went back to my crib at around 4 AM. After playing some drinking games my cousin bounced with the other girl and I banged "Jane."
"HYUN"
Hyun was actually a friend of my cousin's that he had known from a while ago. She brought her friend out that night and it was sort of the same deal - we all went back to my crib and then my cousin bounced with the other chick.
SHANGHAI
"ANNE"
I met Anne the first time I went to Shanghai, which was only for a week. I met her in a club called Guandii, which I mentioned in my post about Shanghai nightlife. She was impressed with my dancing and wanted to meet me again but I had to leave the next day.
I came back a year later and recognized her so opened her. We decided to hang out again the next week. We then went out together and went bar hopping. After about three hours I decided it was time to be straight with her.
I took her aside and said something along the lines of "Look, I'm 20 and you're 26. I'm Korean and you're Chinese and we're not going to get married. I know you think I'm cute. Let's fuck."
She stared at me and then burst out laughing, then disappeared into the crowd of whatever club we were at that night. Didn't hear from her at all for about three days, when she booty called me and told me to come to her crib.
She opened the door in nothing but a thong. End of story.
I'm not sure if that was terrible game or not, but it definitely worked so if I'm in a position in the future where I don't want to invest any more time in a girl, I might just give her a blunt ultimatum like that so I can move on. Blow me or blow me out.
"JESS"
Jess was the only girl I've ever met that I've banged within less than two hours of meeting her. I stumbled outside of guandii when the doors closed, because when you're in Shanghai you party until the sun comes up. She was sitting outside by herself at a table, on the phone, smoking a cigarette. I sat down at the table with her and waited until she got off the phone, then basically went direct on her.
"Hey, I'm Young. You're really cute."
I don't remember what happened conversationally but I convinced her to go get food with me. I brought her to my crib and then realized that I didnt have any food, so I went and got her a glass of grape juice in a wine glass. She drank it and then I tried to get her undressed. It took like an hour and a half of banter and comfort and LMR talk before I was able to get her shirt off. Once the shirt came off though, everything else did.
"SAMANTHA"
Sammi was the girl I worked with. I met her the first day of work and thought she was smoking hot, but as the intern I assumed she was off bounds. She was the head of the Japanese investment team and definitely my superior, so I acted as so.
The weekend of my first week at work she invited me to go out with her girlfriends, so I said definitely, let's do it. That night I coincidentally had plans with my friends and girlfriends at the same place she wanted to go to, so she watched all night as I was split between dancing with her and getting distracted by all the other hotties I knew at that venue. Jealousy plotlines...
She made me promise that if we "ever ended up hooking up" I would never tell anyone. I said sure, as long as she did the same. That sealed the deal and we went to my crib.
KOREA
I am Korean, speak the language, and am proofed there, so that changes things dramatically for me compared to the situation that most guys would face. Anyway, I have had three SNLs in Seoul.
"KATE" - Met her about a week before France played Korea in the world cup. It was the rainy season so I offered to share my umbrella with her and walk her to the train station. We did that and I explained to her that I was studying/working there for the summer and visiting relatives. Afterwards, she gave me her number and told me she would cook me dinner sometime (awesome!).
We met up the night that Korea was playing France and because she was a good 7 years older than I was (I was 19 at the time) she decided to drive us around and show me her favorite spots. We began bar hopping and I went for the makeout earlier on in the night to let her know exactly what my intentions were. Five hours later, after we finished watching the game, we went back to my crib and banged.
"JANE"
Met her in a "booking" club. "Booking" is an interesting phenomenon that happens only in South Korea and Koreatown in LA. Basically guys pay a ton of dough to get bottles of scotch and food/fruits, and girls come to the venue to sit down and be forcibly introduced to men. It's funny, the waiters literally walk through the club and drag girls to your table. Then you pour them a shot and talk to them for a while. If they don't like you or you don't speak the language, they bounce. If they like you, they give you their number. If they like you and you've got game, they go home with you that night.
It was pretty simple. My cousin and I met two girls and we all went back to my crib at around 4 AM. After playing some drinking games my cousin bounced with the other girl and I banged "Jane."
"HYUN"
Hyun was actually a friend of my cousin's that he had known from a while ago. She brought her friend out that night and it was sort of the same deal - we all went back to my crib and then my cousin bounced with the other chick.
SHANGHAI
"ANNE"
I met Anne the first time I went to Shanghai, which was only for a week. I met her in a club called Guandii, which I mentioned in my post about Shanghai nightlife. She was impressed with my dancing and wanted to meet me again but I had to leave the next day.
I came back a year later and recognized her so opened her. We decided to hang out again the next week. We then went out together and went bar hopping. After about three hours I decided it was time to be straight with her.
I took her aside and said something along the lines of "Look, I'm 20 and you're 26. I'm Korean and you're Chinese and we're not going to get married. I know you think I'm cute. Let's fuck."
She stared at me and then burst out laughing, then disappeared into the crowd of whatever club we were at that night. Didn't hear from her at all for about three days, when she booty called me and told me to come to her crib.
She opened the door in nothing but a thong. End of story.
I'm not sure if that was terrible game or not, but it definitely worked so if I'm in a position in the future where I don't want to invest any more time in a girl, I might just give her a blunt ultimatum like that so I can move on. Blow me or blow me out.
"JESS"
Jess was the only girl I've ever met that I've banged within less than two hours of meeting her. I stumbled outside of guandii when the doors closed, because when you're in Shanghai you party until the sun comes up. She was sitting outside by herself at a table, on the phone, smoking a cigarette. I sat down at the table with her and waited until she got off the phone, then basically went direct on her.
"Hey, I'm Young. You're really cute."
I don't remember what happened conversationally but I convinced her to go get food with me. I brought her to my crib and then realized that I didnt have any food, so I went and got her a glass of grape juice in a wine glass. She drank it and then I tried to get her undressed. It took like an hour and a half of banter and comfort and LMR talk before I was able to get her shirt off. Once the shirt came off though, everything else did.
"SAMANTHA"
Sammi was the girl I worked with. I met her the first day of work and thought she was smoking hot, but as the intern I assumed she was off bounds. She was the head of the Japanese investment team and definitely my superior, so I acted as so.
The weekend of my first week at work she invited me to go out with her girlfriends, so I said definitely, let's do it. That night I coincidentally had plans with my friends and girlfriends at the same place she wanted to go to, so she watched all night as I was split between dancing with her and getting distracted by all the other hotties I knew at that venue. Jealousy plotlines...
She made me promise that if we "ever ended up hooking up" I would never tell anyone. I said sure, as long as she did the same. That sealed the deal and we went to my crib.