Wait, you said Argentina is not a place you plan to go back soon. So are you saying she lives in Argentina? If so, that would seem a no-brainer getting out of just because of the distance. Not sure if that's what you meant, of if you meant she is an Argentine living her who plans to move back there. Can you clarify?
Sometimes though, the best offense is a good defense. All that can be preempted by being honest upfront. If you aren't looking for anything serious, just say so. I don't see any reason why we guys have to lie about our intentions. I'd have no problem telling any girl that "I'm busy, like to travel for extended times and enjoy my freedom for the moment. One day I may have kids and a big mortgage(let's her know you may at least be open to the idea of something serious), but for now I'm just taking my life a day at a time and getting in a serious relationship isn't where I'm at this moment." As long as you put that disclaimer out there, any hurt feelings are no fault of yours.
Don't worry about going soft. A few years ago I broke things off with a girl and she cried so hard on the phone it haunts me to this day. No need to cause that kind of pain if you can avoid it by being upfront.
Sometimes though, the best offense is a good defense. All that can be preempted by being honest upfront. If you aren't looking for anything serious, just say so. I don't see any reason why we guys have to lie about our intentions. I'd have no problem telling any girl that "I'm busy, like to travel for extended times and enjoy my freedom for the moment. One day I may have kids and a big mortgage(let's her know you may at least be open to the idea of something serious), but for now I'm just taking my life a day at a time and getting in a serious relationship isn't where I'm at this moment." As long as you put that disclaimer out there, any hurt feelings are no fault of yours.
Don't worry about going soft. A few years ago I broke things off with a girl and she cried so hard on the phone it haunts me to this day. No need to cause that kind of pain if you can avoid it by being upfront.