First post. Something that I hadn't seen discussed much but is definitely an issue for myself. As a metalhead (musician as well), I can say that the places where we often convene are not filled with good prospects (except for maybe the bartender). If there are any, they are riddled with terrible tattoos, ugly piercings, are out of shape and have ugly dyed hair. The sad part is they are usually one of only a few women there and they receive attention all night long.
How do those of you who don't actively listen to EDM, Hip-Hop, Pop, or any variation of these genres get yourself into a more positive state at bars/clubs where this music is dominant?
Do you ever reach a point where you are able to start liking it or do you just deal with it through exposure?
Should I avoid these places overall (and concentrate on other types of venues) or persevere through it for the poon?
Thank you.
If this belongs under a different sub forum I apologize.
How do those of you who don't actively listen to EDM, Hip-Hop, Pop, or any variation of these genres get yourself into a more positive state at bars/clubs where this music is dominant?
Do you ever reach a point where you are able to start liking it or do you just deal with it through exposure?
Should I avoid these places overall (and concentrate on other types of venues) or persevere through it for the poon?
Thank you.
If this belongs under a different sub forum I apologize.