Quote: (01-09-2014 12:26 PM)soup Wrote:
Quote: (01-09-2014 12:20 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
@Chaos what's more important, your feelings or the family?
Many men before you have sacrificed their happiness for the greater cause...noble? Stupid?
Human happiness can be more complex than this either/or frame that you are positing.
That's why it's joyful to fuck a woman than jerk off, and at times, the opposite is true.
For some, they can't experience joy if they feel like they are fulfilling their responsibilities. It can be difficult to enjoy things if you've got pressing stuff on your mind. Also, family doesn't have to be against the player. In fact, some of the strongest players are probably the guys who are able to maintain a family and have his side pieces while keeping control over the whole thing. I can't imagine how hard that must be and have a lot of respect for that level of ability.
Exactly, and I get your point Westindian.
It's actually about responsibilities. I wish I didn't feel responsible for it, but now I kind of do. I didn't choose it. For example, not long a go I was traveling around the world for 18 months. Meanwhile I did enjoy the ride, the thought of having unfinished business at home was eating the back of my head all the time. Not about having children or being married. It was more about maintaining and taking care of my legacy and not letting it go waste what my ancestors has built up.
But I admit that sometimes the thought of having kids pops up in my mind.
Maybe it's not important at the moment but in the future when I'm old and grey it could be a good investment that pays of multiple times.
I think nobody wants to die alone.
The biggest question mark is to find a women that is good enough to impregnate, at the moment I actually having a Russian girl over for a month or two and she's already giving hints of having kids. Hell no. That won't happen.
Not in the nearest future.