Help! Best friend's younger brother about to marry a Lindy West-sized fattie.
12-28-2013, 12:09 AM
My best friend's younger brother is about 26 years old, has a bachelor's degree in finance. Decent-looking guy, not Clooney or Pitt but not Quasimodo either. He's been dating a Lindy West-sized porker for the past couple years and recently got engaged to her.
His older brother, my best friend, is pretty familiar with red pill principles and is worried sick about this slow-motion trainwreck catastrophe. He feels like he can't say anything himself to his younger brother without incurring his wrath and causing him to dig in his heels even further. We can't figure it out. Is he worried he'll be alone? He still lives at home with their dad so this might be a way to move out of the house. He probably makes low-thirties since he resides in the recent college grad/entry-level part of the job market. His brother fears that as he gets older and moves up professionally and stays in shape (the guy is skinny as a beanpole), he'll come to hate himself for marrying a fattie and cursing himself for leaving better pussy on the table. He wants me to intervene and talk to the guy but I don't know how I can tell him "Don't be stupid and marry a fat chick when you're fresh out of college" without causing major offense. I feel like my best shot is to frame this as anti-marriage in general and not anti-his fat fiancee, give him the soft sell as "marriage is not the right move at this stage of your life." The guy to my knowledge has not been exposed to the manosphere.
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His older brother, my best friend, is pretty familiar with red pill principles and is worried sick about this slow-motion trainwreck catastrophe. He feels like he can't say anything himself to his younger brother without incurring his wrath and causing him to dig in his heels even further. We can't figure it out. Is he worried he'll be alone? He still lives at home with their dad so this might be a way to move out of the house. He probably makes low-thirties since he resides in the recent college grad/entry-level part of the job market. His brother fears that as he gets older and moves up professionally and stays in shape (the guy is skinny as a beanpole), he'll come to hate himself for marrying a fattie and cursing himself for leaving better pussy on the table. He wants me to intervene and talk to the guy but I don't know how I can tell him "Don't be stupid and marry a fat chick when you're fresh out of college" without causing major offense. I feel like my best shot is to frame this as anti-marriage in general and not anti-his fat fiancee, give him the soft sell as "marriage is not the right move at this stage of your life." The guy to my knowledge has not been exposed to the manosphere.