Quote: (12-14-2013 02:56 AM)Sugar Wrote:
Quote: (12-14-2013 01:37 AM)OkStudies Wrote:
The attitudes of women here (and the endemic flakiness) is at a nuclear level in SF. Comparable to Toronto. Really SF basically is the US version of Toronto (refer to my earlier thread on the subject). The chicks here have the attention span of gnat, the mouth of a drunken sailer, tats/piercings of a hardcore jailbird/criminal, and all the "femininity" of a fat feminist cupcake blogger.
Dare not try approach a 7.5 or above, 9/10 prepare to get your time wasted if not immediately blown out/ignored for the most trivial of reasons. Good looking? Doesn't matter (unless your white and look like a model) you're invisible. Money? Fuck you, now give it to me. Muscles? They hate you too, get in line. This is a city that literally hates everything.
What is the root cause of a city with virtually zero competition (from the many betas here) but the bitchiest, ball bustingest, flakiest, sloppy, vulgar women you can imagine? Somebody throw me a lifeline here. It's an unsolved mystery to me.
Where are you approaching women and under what circumstances? How many sets / week? How is your social circle?
I'm usually the first one to complain about SF, but come on man it's not that bad.
I have a decent girl coming over in 10 minutes that I'm gonna bareback, and basically degrade the fuck out of.
I'm definitely interested to hear what's going on with you, PM me if you want.
Hint #1: if you're invisible to women here then experiment until you do something to make yourself visible.
I mostly do night game and some day game at westfield mall/union square where the decent quality seems to be.
I do OK in night game (flakes galore though!), but daygame is seriously brutal here. I've gone out on days and got zero IOI's, just blank or bitchy stares. I dress well, stylish leather jacket, polo shoes, well groomed.
I'm a good looking (black) guy. No money, but I can fake it like I made it. My wings usually have superb game (they need it!).
OKcupid is almost a waste of time. Almost. Been on several shitty dates and had to take a break from that shit.
Bottom line unless your seriously balling or status some stupid bs niche (hipsters!) market your going to have a tough time in this city, point blank.