Hey guys, I've been wondering how to balance aggressiveness vs elegant/classy/original moves on girls. I know I sometimes don't make moves if I feel the circumstances are not favorable. I'm really picky about openners too.
I find it extremely tacky how some guys are too forward/evident, go hopping from table to table picking up in bars, suck mouth in the middle of the dance floor/house party, etc. It certainly has made me pass on many opportunities, but the "elegance" factor sometimes holds me back (if there's such a thing for picking up...)
How important is the mysterious gentleman vs the evident-aggressive player? I tend to always pick the first (especially when surrounded by a social circle that knows each other well), but have to admit that road is not the most efficient one. Quality women notice such things, don't they? is it worth it?
I have no problem being social and generating interest in a crowded situation the problem is sometimes extraction and generating good circumstances to escalate when there's no time/space to do it more discreetly.
Any thoughts? experiences?
I find it extremely tacky how some guys are too forward/evident, go hopping from table to table picking up in bars, suck mouth in the middle of the dance floor/house party, etc. It certainly has made me pass on many opportunities, but the "elegance" factor sometimes holds me back (if there's such a thing for picking up...)
How important is the mysterious gentleman vs the evident-aggressive player? I tend to always pick the first (especially when surrounded by a social circle that knows each other well), but have to admit that road is not the most efficient one. Quality women notice such things, don't they? is it worth it?
I have no problem being social and generating interest in a crowded situation the problem is sometimes extraction and generating good circumstances to escalate when there's no time/space to do it more discreetly.
Any thoughts? experiences?