Quote: (12-08-2013 08:10 PM)master_thespian Wrote:
Quote: (12-08-2013 08:02 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:
Quote: (12-08-2013 05:35 PM)Ensam Wrote:
What's your definition of flaking?
Yeah, I guess we really need to define "flaking".
Is flaking:
1. You have a girls number and you can't convert into a date?
2. A girl commits to a date and doesn't show up/ cancels at the last moment?
Number 2. I would say a severe flake would be if you talk to her or text with her and confirm up that you are meeting that afternoon or evening, she agrees and then does not show up or respond to calls or texts asking what's going on with her.
I could have swore I already responded to this thread but apparently it didn't post.
Ok.
Yeah, I would say that if you set the date up via text and she "flakes" then you have no one to blame but yourself.
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The best way to handle flakes is to continue to do the activity and have fun anyways with her, so it really is her loss and she is the one missing out. If you agreed to go hiking and she no shows, go hiking by yourself and have a good time. If you agreed to meet a girl at a bar for drinks and she no shows, just approach hot girls in the bar.
Agreed.
I do what I am going to do and a girl can come along.
That being said, I set my moves via phone.
Flaking by definition #2 is minuscule.
Flaking by definition #1 of course happens all the time.