Quote: (11-04-2013 10:55 AM)AntiTrace Wrote:
Alright I guess I did find another problem:
Your outwardly TRYING to project a nonchalant attitude while inwardly second guessing every single you move made.
See how that doesn't work?
yes, usually I dont, but with this one I have. usually it doesnt affect me like this.
Quote: (11-04-2013 11:25 AM)basilransom Wrote:
You talk about her like she's your adversary in court, and not a sweet foreign girl who slept with you. Maybe you should look into why you're so bitterly opposed to extending the barest of pleasantries to her. Sounds like you want to convince yourself you're alpha by getting a girl to do 100% of the 'chasing.'
It's the 2/3 rule, not the 0/100 rule.
I guess it does. Here is the bottom line, maybe its old school or whatever, but I see it as, she made the plans, she should follow through. I shouldn't have to track her down to make sure we are on. Its as simple as that. I would do that in business and in life. Someone invites me, I will assume its on unless they say otherwise.
As far as confirming as a sign of weakness, I still think it is. I carried on my day as I usually do. The pleasantries I extend come from me asking her to do something. Me chasing her to confirm her invite with me is as blue pill as one can get, unless you are really begging to be with her.