[Blaze Frazier]

(10-29-2013 06:43 AM)j r Wrote:  

From your story it seems like you were very passive, until you got drunk an aggressive in all the wrong ways. You should have used your buddy's girl as some social proof at the strip club. You say that your buddy left for a while and you didn't know what to do. Here's what you hold have done: chatted up other strippers. Get the girl you know to introduce you to other girls.

Just because this girl wanted to play Chinese fingercuffs doesn't mean that you had to just go along. She probably would have been happy to get one of the other girls to come along with you.

Your post rings true with me.

I was passive because I'm not a big fan of strip clubs and tried to take myself out of the moment, but went along to hang out with my buddy and needed a break from the daily grind that I had put myself through for the last few months. Once my buddy's girl got off work, things changed because suddenly I was the third wheel. Before that, it was just my buddy and I hanging out with some topless chicks walking around as we had a few $3 You-Call-Its.

His girl didn't seem to know many of the strippers since she practically just began working there a few weeks prior to that night. I pointed her out while I was getting that dance and that chick didn't know her from Eve. Talent wasn't great and if I was going to pull one back, it would have been that chick — but she also had the night shift and ... Well, it's in the past now and I'll go from there and learn from this.