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On thing I've though of because I want to have kids is to have a kid with the girl before bringing her back. Most women with infants are too exhausted and focused on their brat to run around chasing RVF type men. If you bring her over when the kids about two, kid will be 5-6 by the time she gets citizenship and even if she goes crazy and ditches you then, you only have maybe 12-13 years to pay child support instead of 16.