Quote: (04-16-2011 04:01 PM)tjuan Wrote:
Quote: (04-16-2011 03:00 PM)Chad Daring Wrote:
It doesnt help when the guys in the group are all betas and you cant tell if they're actually dating a girl or not because they'll make some physical contact then stand there with their hands in their pockets.
This is where some MM is really useful. If those guys are taking their girls out and not making it clear that they're "theirs", then it's fine to approach the group (not just her, best to address the guys and win them over).. what you're working towards is saying: "How do you know each other?" Everything you do prior to that question is to gain rapport to ask that question.
Most definitely, but the biggest issue, for me anyways, is the initial approach. I'm good once conversation gets going I'm fine.
I am a fan of the "how do you all know each other' question though, while everyone else is talking you can get some good nonverbal messages going between you and the girl you want.