I remember watching this vid a while back.
There's some validity to what he says about not letting insecurity over a girl's sexual past get in your head. That kind of behavior is often tied to pedestalization, and we all know how crucial de-pedestalization is to the internalization of the red pill. His description of how such insecurity can hurt your game is also important, an it is also true that such insecurity can be cured by experience.
That being said, there is a pretty fine line between letting go of beta insecurities regarding female sexual histories and just coming full circle into the land of the emasculated cuckold.
There are lots of average frustrated 18-22 year old chumps out there who let the fact that the girl they're into has had 3-5 sexual partners before him throw his game off. It is one thing for that guy to just let go and calm down. Girls will sense this insecurity and they will react negatively to it. The guy who can't even stand the thought of a girl he's into having ever been involved sexually with someone else needs to take her off of the pedestal and fortify himself a bit, because virgins are not terribly common these days.
It is another thing entirely, however, to start getting "amped up" about the idea of your woman getting with other men. Indifference is good, but there is a fine line between a) mature acceptance of the fact that you will often never be any given woman's "one and only" and b) just plain old cuckoldry. When you suggest that men invite other men to fuck women they're seriously interested in as a means to "steel" themselves against jealously later on in the relationship, you're entering cuckoldry land.
No man worth his salt is going to want to intentionally pass a girl that he's even entertaining notions of becoming serious with (someone who he has not yet written off completely as a long term prospect) around among his buddies. That's not jealousy, that's just reasonable.
Training yourself to avoid jealously isn't a bad idea, but you don't need to engage in regular instances of calculated semi-cuckoldry to do it.
There's some validity to what he says about not letting insecurity over a girl's sexual past get in your head. That kind of behavior is often tied to pedestalization, and we all know how crucial de-pedestalization is to the internalization of the red pill. His description of how such insecurity can hurt your game is also important, an it is also true that such insecurity can be cured by experience.
That being said, there is a pretty fine line between letting go of beta insecurities regarding female sexual histories and just coming full circle into the land of the emasculated cuckold.
There are lots of average frustrated 18-22 year old chumps out there who let the fact that the girl they're into has had 3-5 sexual partners before him throw his game off. It is one thing for that guy to just let go and calm down. Girls will sense this insecurity and they will react negatively to it. The guy who can't even stand the thought of a girl he's into having ever been involved sexually with someone else needs to take her off of the pedestal and fortify himself a bit, because virgins are not terribly common these days.
It is another thing entirely, however, to start getting "amped up" about the idea of your woman getting with other men. Indifference is good, but there is a fine line between a) mature acceptance of the fact that you will often never be any given woman's "one and only" and b) just plain old cuckoldry. When you suggest that men invite other men to fuck women they're seriously interested in as a means to "steel" themselves against jealously later on in the relationship, you're entering cuckoldry land.
No man worth his salt is going to want to intentionally pass a girl that he's even entertaining notions of becoming serious with (someone who he has not yet written off completely as a long term prospect) around among his buddies. That's not jealousy, that's just reasonable.
Training yourself to avoid jealously isn't a bad idea, but you don't need to engage in regular instances of calculated semi-cuckoldry to do it.
Know your enemy and know yourself, find naught in fear for 100 battles. Know yourself but not your enemy, find level of loss and victory. Know thy enemy but not yourself, wallow in defeat every time.