I'm guilty of it, on 3 different occasions. Hot women too (hence, the justification). I never actually physically saw any of the kids though, except the one time when I was convinced to sneak in the house, when the kids were home, and sleep over. It was against my judgment but for some reason I relented. Then a rug rat comes in int he morning, pops the door open unexpectedly, and starts whining "Mommy, who's that? who's that?" as he notices my shaved head popping out from the covers. My perfect nightmare, as the last thing I want to do is have some little boy see a stranger in bed with his Mommy. I felt fucking awful.
But my stance has kind of changed from the past.
I used to think that there was no correlation between past and future pregnancies. Except now, I see single motherhood as evidence of bad decision making/irresponsibility on her part, evidence that she will more likely keep an unplanned pregnancy than not (very likely), and likely evidence that she would suck to deal with as a baby mama. After all, she couldn't or wouldn't hang on to her child's father. That, to me, says that she 1. is likely selfish - in that she won't do everything possible for the child's welfare - like hold a family together 2. Has experience in dealing with baby daddies - you'll be child's play for her, and at her whim for 18 years.
The only thing worse than being a baby daddy, with a split family, would be being the second or third baby daddy in a long line of check writers to her.
Dating and fucking single mother's is just too large of a risk. Fuck women with no kids so that you at least stand a chance on all counts if you get her pregnant.
I have a single mom right now who has been offering to fuck me for a while, on and off. She's a solid 8. Tall and blond. I really want to fuck her, but she's a mess. 2 baby daddies and she's got a substance abuse problem. There's no way I'd want her raising a kid of mine if she got pregnant. So, I can't fuck her. Even though when I'm drinking its hard (she hangs around a group of my friends). Also, she unusually fertile. I think that both pregnancies were from one night stands. The second pregnancy, she didn't even know that she was pregnant. She went the entire nine months and her body didn't change. Apparently, she got her period and everything. She drank, smoked, and who knows did what else the entire nine months. Then one day she has bad abdominal pain, she goes to the hospital, and the baby pops out. This is a girl who is rail thin, except with some good baby carrying hips. But she's tall and so it looks fine. Crazy, and crazy dangerous for any guy who shacks up with her.
But my stance has kind of changed from the past.
I used to think that there was no correlation between past and future pregnancies. Except now, I see single motherhood as evidence of bad decision making/irresponsibility on her part, evidence that she will more likely keep an unplanned pregnancy than not (very likely), and likely evidence that she would suck to deal with as a baby mama. After all, she couldn't or wouldn't hang on to her child's father. That, to me, says that she 1. is likely selfish - in that she won't do everything possible for the child's welfare - like hold a family together 2. Has experience in dealing with baby daddies - you'll be child's play for her, and at her whim for 18 years.
The only thing worse than being a baby daddy, with a split family, would be being the second or third baby daddy in a long line of check writers to her.
Dating and fucking single mother's is just too large of a risk. Fuck women with no kids so that you at least stand a chance on all counts if you get her pregnant.
I have a single mom right now who has been offering to fuck me for a while, on and off. She's a solid 8. Tall and blond. I really want to fuck her, but she's a mess. 2 baby daddies and she's got a substance abuse problem. There's no way I'd want her raising a kid of mine if she got pregnant. So, I can't fuck her. Even though when I'm drinking its hard (she hangs around a group of my friends). Also, she unusually fertile. I think that both pregnancies were from one night stands. The second pregnancy, she didn't even know that she was pregnant. She went the entire nine months and her body didn't change. Apparently, she got her period and everything. She drank, smoked, and who knows did what else the entire nine months. Then one day she has bad abdominal pain, she goes to the hospital, and the baby pops out. This is a girl who is rail thin, except with some good baby carrying hips. But she's tall and so it looks fine. Crazy, and crazy dangerous for any guy who shacks up with her.