Alcohol works great for me too with seemingly no limits on how fucked up I can be. I don't want alcohol in my life anymore though because I have a problem with it.
The next best thing I've found is following the 3 second rule (the only old school pickup advice that really works). I find that it works to get me out of my head and into the moment, the same as with alcohol, because it's almost as if I take action and start talking to the girl before my mind has a chance to catch up and start with all the doubting and excuse making.
The next best thing I've found is following the 3 second rule (the only old school pickup advice that really works). I find that it works to get me out of my head and into the moment, the same as with alcohol, because it's almost as if I take action and start talking to the girl before my mind has a chance to catch up and start with all the doubting and excuse making.