Quote: (06-19-2013 12:01 AM)Therapsid Wrote:
So, in a way we're talking about just an observational opener. But it's said with an exaggerated self-confidence and sexual innuendo. Plus, whatever her reaction you respond rapidly with a witty response.
He's daring about negging (repeatedly negged Mila J hard, but then pulled back and said "Joking!" like 3-4 times)....one time was really just pretty rude as well as unnecessary, they were marketing their clothing line and he commented on how ugly they were. I think it was actually bad for rapport, but they were so into him they let it go. He was open about digging Uma Thurman.
You're right about shifting something about the interaction into sexuality, it makes them feel free to flirt and by continuing to talk to you they tacitly show approval of the sexual frame.
To some degree I think the guy is not really in control of what he is doing, he's a little nuts. Looks, quick wit, brains, fame, money and excitement are doing it, but actually I don't think he needs to do half the mean stuff he does.