Quote: (06-10-2013 11:15 AM)Jaylow Wrote:
I probably talk 90% of the time on my dates. Its just what comes natural to me and if I have to sit there and listen to hours of tripe I will lose interest or get distracted. I find its a lot easier to escalate physically when I am doing the talking but Im starting to realize that comfort building usually ends up lacking by the end.
Ive had a bunch of dates where I just walked around with her during the day without going inside any places and never really letting her get a word in. After 30-45 minutes I stop the walk and we sit down somewhere scenic Ive picked out before hand. The moment we sit down the girl just ends up unloading on me with emotional things going on with her life, stuff about her family, father, debt, dreams etc without me even asking her.
This is the opposite of how I do dates. Not surprisingly, both styles can be lacking in building comfort.
Most girls open up right at that moment? That is something I have never seen, opening up all at once at a specific stage of a date outdoors.