Quote: (04-22-2013 07:49 PM)nek Wrote:
Need help trying to articulate a point I was making to a buddy:
Basically, there's a bit of a paradox in all this. First, you need to approach to pull ass. See this post below:
http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-22952-...#pid423309
I agree with this, but I also agree with the 'be the prize/have them chase you' principle. My buddy pointed out that this is a bit of a paradox as approaching means you're chasing them and not being the prize. How woud you explain this? I still feel both are right but I'm having a hard time articulating how both can be 'right' at the same time when on the surface they seem like opposing ideas. Thanks in advance.
Prime example of the male hamster @ work.
Where the female hamster rejects all logic, the male hamster looks for logical fallacies so that he can trap his own brain in a loop and avoid taking action.
You see the same thing with
- process vs results
- canned vs improvised
- inner game vs outer game
- I need to build up confidence to approach vs approaching builds up confidence
There are plenty of people in the game, that believe in game, that are supporters of the game that are SABOTAGING the game.
But the most important Guy Fawkes, the one doing the most damage to the game - is usually the guy in the mirror. He's looking for any reason to not do the hardest thing in his life. Any reason.
Maybe some other guy can sit back at the bar and have hot bitches come up to him, (believe me, when you are that guy, those "hot" bitches really aren't that hot) but for 99% of us, we've got to do what is necessary to get on these hoes.
That means making money, working out, dressing better, approaching chicks during the day time, at night, at school, at work, at public transportation - and then when you get a tentative yes..or hell just a soft mamby pamby no - to push the interaction until your dick gets wet.
And you're never going to be able to coast. NEVER.
WIA