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(04-08-2009 10:22 AM)Brandon E Wrote:  



So the girl I'm seeing right now is always giving me this hot cold shit. One minute she is all about it and the next she isn't really feeling it. She takes adderole for her ADD, and usually when she isn't feeling it is when it is wearing off at night, which sucks because I'm always working late, so she'll either come over at night and be lame and tired and not want to fuck (including last night, when she is going back to New York for 5 days, so 6 days no pune for me), or she'll just say she is too tired to come over. When she isn't tired and being lame, she is cool as shit. Really, the coolest girl I've ever dated, and the sex is amazing, not to mention she does yoga, so really flexible and a perfect 10 body. I don't know what to do because next week is off season which means the already bad guy to girl ratio gets even worse. I mean really, I don't have trouble picking up girls, but when there are really no cute girls and even when there is there are 5 guys hitting on one, it makes it hard. All the bars and clubs close down. So basically if I break it off with her, I get no pussy or have to try hard. I'm thinking stay with her until she moves to LA, which is in July, when the girls come back and it is summer season. Basically, how can I let her know I'm not diggin' this whole hot cold thing without losing the puss???

This is a case where you need to use her own game against her. Call her out on it somehow,or just start shit-testing her yourself. Chicks and people in general always want things that they feel that they cant have, and it looks like she has you wrapped around her fingers so you must be getting a bit boring to her (no offence as Im sure your not boring). Dont worry about her until you get back and just talk to some randoms that you see in the grocery store or something. If all goes well you'll have met some more women by the time she gets back and if she wants to do something then schedule a date or something with one of them. From my experience she'll get jealous (women do very easily) and the next time you see her she'll want you more then you can imagine lol.