My buddy who I met through game. He didn't have much experience when we met, but had more than me. We met 8 months ago. We went out a couple of times, some decent approaches. I'm 19, he is 21.
Today, he is in an LTR and is going to propose to her within the next month or two. Keep in mind, he did not know this girl when we met 8 months ago. He has been dating her for just over half a year. He pulled an entire 180 on our conversations of 'not even considering marriage until 30's.'
He is done school and has a well paying job and will do well for himself financially. Besides that.. I don't know. I have tried asking him things such as 'You should give it more time' 'Don't you think you are rushing things' but his replies are 'Trust me man I thought the same way months ago but now it's different. You will know once you meet the right girl.'
He's referred to her as 'the One.'
His advice to me is to look for more than one night stands and try to get some relationship experience with a girl that is compatible.
Contrast that advice with that of my regular buddies I go out with, who tell me 'Don't even consider relationship now, too young. Go for bangs and meet some cool girls to have fun with, without commitment.'
Not sure what to make of it. Still leaves my head spinning..
Today, he is in an LTR and is going to propose to her within the next month or two. Keep in mind, he did not know this girl when we met 8 months ago. He has been dating her for just over half a year. He pulled an entire 180 on our conversations of 'not even considering marriage until 30's.'
He is done school and has a well paying job and will do well for himself financially. Besides that.. I don't know. I have tried asking him things such as 'You should give it more time' 'Don't you think you are rushing things' but his replies are 'Trust me man I thought the same way months ago but now it's different. You will know once you meet the right girl.'
He's referred to her as 'the One.'
His advice to me is to look for more than one night stands and try to get some relationship experience with a girl that is compatible.
Contrast that advice with that of my regular buddies I go out with, who tell me 'Don't even consider relationship now, too young. Go for bangs and meet some cool girls to have fun with, without commitment.'
Not sure what to make of it. Still leaves my head spinning..