Quote: (03-13-2013 04:46 PM)ElBorrachoInfamoso Wrote:
How old is this cousin?
I agree that we should teach boys something about the sexual marketplace before they reach adulthood, but I think that goes too far. That vow is throwing him into the deep end before he's even learned how to swim. Best to just show him how fucked up most women are and ease him into things.
Nope. This is perfectly reasonable. Boys aren't fragile. You don't have to treat them with kid gloves.
My cousin (who is 21) is a typical these days... very smart, very savvy, and not easily shocked. He said my vow was "a little crazy, but actually I get what you are saying".
What I think is much worse, is how many men don't say *anything* to boys on this topic. Stop being such wimps guys. Don't just come here on a forum and rant privately. Get out there and tell those boys the truth.