I read this post a while ago and wanted to reply to it but I forgot my password because im fucking smart like that so I opened a new account.
Looks like you have some good day game going down and that is what I have been running all year. I am a grad student in Montreal and University campuses are a massive I mean massive resource for running day game. It is easy because everyone has something in common, not only that you are at the same school but roughly the same class, ethnic group, etc. So you can drop numerous non threatening openers, like "this coffee is shit, i dont know why i drink it everyday." The problem is these convos tend to be super boring as shit so you need to get off the same old topics. Another thing that I have realized is that north american girls, and maybe beyond dont give a fuck about you and your academic life, unless it is exactly the same field, and even there you can't really dwell on it, or a professor, but they are all old and ugly anyways.
Anyways, as you can see I am going through similar thought processes/day game improvement like yourself.
In regards to yours, keep exploring, but I personally don't like the directions opener, simply because the segue-way into other topics, building rapport, is limited. The funny opener I think works best, it starts it on a good note. Also the observational one, classic being what is that youre reading, or how can you read here with all this noise, or again, this coffee is shit.
As for the model dialogue, I would have to totally disagree with Senor El Guapo, I think that would just be a strange burst into the conversation that would blow out of the water the truth that all you want is her vag.
I would like to see how this goes, I think we are in the same spot, well I know where I am, in that I am a great opener, good at getting dialogue going, making her laugh, eye contact, get her into me etc for the 20 mins that I get her to sit still and talk to me, but I am no closer, ie what you said making future plans to meet up. I think this has to do with a) I have a girlfirend and its a long term relationship and ive been (almost) caught cheating so many times that its jsut a big hassle
b) the context of university, I will likely see these girls again, and again.
Anyways, get back to me on closing.
Looks like you have some good day game going down and that is what I have been running all year. I am a grad student in Montreal and University campuses are a massive I mean massive resource for running day game. It is easy because everyone has something in common, not only that you are at the same school but roughly the same class, ethnic group, etc. So you can drop numerous non threatening openers, like "this coffee is shit, i dont know why i drink it everyday." The problem is these convos tend to be super boring as shit so you need to get off the same old topics. Another thing that I have realized is that north american girls, and maybe beyond dont give a fuck about you and your academic life, unless it is exactly the same field, and even there you can't really dwell on it, or a professor, but they are all old and ugly anyways.
Anyways, as you can see I am going through similar thought processes/day game improvement like yourself.
In regards to yours, keep exploring, but I personally don't like the directions opener, simply because the segue-way into other topics, building rapport, is limited. The funny opener I think works best, it starts it on a good note. Also the observational one, classic being what is that youre reading, or how can you read here with all this noise, or again, this coffee is shit.
As for the model dialogue, I would have to totally disagree with Senor El Guapo, I think that would just be a strange burst into the conversation that would blow out of the water the truth that all you want is her vag.
I would like to see how this goes, I think we are in the same spot, well I know where I am, in that I am a great opener, good at getting dialogue going, making her laugh, eye contact, get her into me etc for the 20 mins that I get her to sit still and talk to me, but I am no closer, ie what you said making future plans to meet up. I think this has to do with a) I have a girlfirend and its a long term relationship and ive been (almost) caught cheating so many times that its jsut a big hassle
b) the context of university, I will likely see these girls again, and again.
Anyways, get back to me on closing.