Quote: (02-13-2013 12:47 PM)Black Knight Wrote:
My post wasn't meant to suggest that going after chicks in their 30s ruins your game. If you're pursuing attractive women of any age, you still have to demonstrate value, own them in bed, tease them, and have an abundance mentality. These are not "beta" characteristics. Buying fancy dinners and being a doormat is not going to work with desirable women of any age.
My point was that they can be more forgiving of minute cracks in your frame, and often gravitate towards hints of slightly more provider-like characteristics in between the usual game, as another poster said. This isn't a major shift -- with college girls you typically go 95% asshole game/ 5% provider, with hot women in their 30s you might go 80%/20%. It's subtle but you do see a difference in things like how they respond to small compliments, are less likely to flake, will openly tell you things they like about you, etc.
It's an interesting point you've brought up, but from my experience girls in their 30's are very conscious of value. If her value actually is high your game has to be on point. Younger girls tend to suffer from self delusion when it comes to value. So in that respect you might have to use negs on the younger girls. That said, I don't neg as it introduces negativity into my mindset. So if the girl is young and overvalues herself... I just laugh it off.