Im in VA and prefer VA. DC is cool to visit occasionaly but when I decided to buy some property I came to VA. You are correct about DC bieng segregated in many respects. Half of the city is black (SE / much of NE) so you can go kick it there if you are looking for that, but I imagine bieng from another city would make that a little difficult. Its clique set up kind of. The white folk in DC tend to be very beta, politically Correct and overly educated about nothing much. The Asians are Korean or Chinese and usually do not date outside their culture much at all, no matter if you are white or black.
Where I live in VA has a sizable latin community which I enjoy dating in. The Asian population near me tends to be as much Vietnamese as Korean but again, they aren't really dating outside their culture (a few) The more Americanized 2nd or 3rd generation do for sure but not the new arrivals. The bad part about this is, once a cute Asian chick is raised here and hangs out with other American chicks too long, she becomes just like every other wanna be Princess in Northern VA driving her dad's BMW and talking about handbags and other meaningless shit. She has affectively lost her cute feminine charm that so many men like in an Asian chick.
I say just expand your network. What kind of places do you go? Try switching up your venues to include off the beaten path stuff. I find some of my best hunting grounds places where I wouldn't normally go and in off hours. I am pretty much over going to crowded clubs and lounges now...I will go occasionally if a friend is in town or for a private party, but more often than not its always a bore and packed with young bucks with too much cologne and a chip on their shoulder and the girls all acting like 10's waiting to get drinks bought for them.
I must say though, DC area does have some very good looking women. I am outside the city like 20 minutes but where I am has tons of Latin, black, middle Eastern, Asian and white variations to choose from.
Where I live in VA has a sizable latin community which I enjoy dating in. The Asian population near me tends to be as much Vietnamese as Korean but again, they aren't really dating outside their culture (a few) The more Americanized 2nd or 3rd generation do for sure but not the new arrivals. The bad part about this is, once a cute Asian chick is raised here and hangs out with other American chicks too long, she becomes just like every other wanna be Princess in Northern VA driving her dad's BMW and talking about handbags and other meaningless shit. She has affectively lost her cute feminine charm that so many men like in an Asian chick.
I say just expand your network. What kind of places do you go? Try switching up your venues to include off the beaten path stuff. I find some of my best hunting grounds places where I wouldn't normally go and in off hours. I am pretty much over going to crowded clubs and lounges now...I will go occasionally if a friend is in town or for a private party, but more often than not its always a bore and packed with young bucks with too much cologne and a chip on their shoulder and the girls all acting like 10's waiting to get drinks bought for them.
I must say though, DC area does have some very good looking women. I am outside the city like 20 minutes but where I am has tons of Latin, black, middle Eastern, Asian and white variations to choose from.