A sympathy or "well this is the least I can do" kiss? Maybe, but what good does that do you? You need to change your perspective here man, unless you're strictly doing this for the challenge of cracking a tough culture. In which case, all the more power to you.
I might be wrong, but you seem to already have it in your head that this girl is going to be incredibly difficult, and to me that's losing before the battle has even been fought. I would try to pull a mental 180 here, loosen way up and take things as they come. Instead of worrying about if you'll be able to get a little kiss, or if she'll like the food, switch tactics and think, "Because it's unlikely I bang her, I can say/do whatever the hell I want!" I'm not suggesting you just whip your dick out and Danza slap her, but feel free to take chances here and use this dinner date as practice for other girls that will be easier to bang without fear of losing this girl. Who knows, a glass or two of wine with dinner (make sure you have drinks with dinner) and maybe you'll get her.
I might be wrong, but you seem to already have it in your head that this girl is going to be incredibly difficult, and to me that's losing before the battle has even been fought. I would try to pull a mental 180 here, loosen way up and take things as they come. Instead of worrying about if you'll be able to get a little kiss, or if she'll like the food, switch tactics and think, "Because it's unlikely I bang her, I can say/do whatever the hell I want!" I'm not suggesting you just whip your dick out and Danza slap her, but feel free to take chances here and use this dinner date as practice for other girls that will be easier to bang without fear of losing this girl. Who knows, a glass or two of wine with dinner (make sure you have drinks with dinner) and maybe you'll get her.