Soo Had a First Date Last Night and Again No Bang... I was aggressive! Help Please
01-12-2013, 10:49 PM
So, she is giving you instructions on how she wants to get played, and you didnt followed them?
Tss...
So, wait a little.
"That is a question you should never ask a man. If he doesnt gives you the answer I am thinking of, he is useless to you as a man. And if he does give you the answer I am thinking of, then he isnt being respectable. But hey, its early still, lets get to a chill place where we can talk. I was thinking about that place with the pool table."
This shows that, while you are a sexual man, you are not desperate nor looking for a quick bang.
Dont look for her approval or validation. Rather give her YOUR approval. "Hey, I like most of your playlist. You lost me at X, but there are not a lot of girls that know Y. You definitely have an eclectic taste"
Your goal shouldnt be to kiss her, but rather, to make her want you to kiss her. To make her wonder why you havnt made a move, to make her question her worth as a woman. To make her consider kissing you, to make her WANT you.
You could try what I do, I dont kiss them until I have them on my bed. That way the first kiss is also the first time we fuck. But that might be to much risk for you, so then again, keep doing what works for you.
You already had your kiss, so your goal shouldnt had to be to keep kissing, but to get her to relax. You already knew that she liked you and was willing to kiss you, so dont be too eager. Lay back and give her room to move, but no way to escape, like a cornered animal.
Again, stop asking for her validation. You already knew she did liked kissing you, dont stroke your ego.
Thats a rational question. You will never get a woman to bed by getting her to be rational. Get her to be emotional.
Weak. Sauce.
A song for a kiss? And for sex can she get a few vintage LPs and a turntable? An offer she cant refuse!
Well, you DID acted like a beta guy, taking her out, looking for her validation and TRYING too hard to just get to kiss her. Can you blame her?
Dont try, do.
Tss...
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"wait a lil bit."
So, wait a little.
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"what do you want to do?"
"That is a question you should never ask a man. If he doesnt gives you the answer I am thinking of, he is useless to you as a man. And if he does give you the answer I am thinking of, then he isnt being respectable. But hey, its early still, lets get to a chill place where we can talk. I was thinking about that place with the pool table."
This shows that, while you are a sexual man, you are not desperate nor looking for a quick bang.
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"so did you like my taste of music?"
Dont look for her approval or validation. Rather give her YOUR approval. "Hey, I like most of your playlist. You lost me at X, but there are not a lot of girls that know Y. You definitely have an eclectic taste"
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"Let's talk, all you want to do is make out"
Your goal shouldnt be to kiss her, but rather, to make her want you to kiss her. To make her wonder why you havnt made a move, to make her question her worth as a woman. To make her consider kissing you, to make her WANT you.
You could try what I do, I dont kiss them until I have them on my bed. That way the first kiss is also the first time we fuck. But that might be to much risk for you, so then again, keep doing what works for you.
You already had your kiss, so your goal shouldnt had to be to keep kissing, but to get her to relax. You already knew that she liked you and was willing to kiss you, so dont be too eager. Lay back and give her room to move, but no way to escape, like a cornered animal.
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outside when i kissed you, did you like it?
Again, stop asking for her validation. You already knew she did liked kissing you, dont stroke your ego.
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so what's the problem?" i ask?
Thats a rational question. You will never get a woman to bed by getting her to be rational. Get her to be emotional.
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yes, and i'll play it but you have to give me a real kiss.
Weak. Sauce.
A song for a kiss? And for sex can she get a few vintage LPs and a turntable? An offer she cant refuse!
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All i can think about is how this chick is treating me like the beta guy that took her out
Well, you DID acted like a beta guy, taking her out, looking for her validation and TRYING too hard to just get to kiss her. Can you blame her?
Dont try, do.