One thing that might help you is to operate out of a particular area of a club/bar rather than looking at the entire place, if you post up somewhere it's much easier to approach girls/tap them on the shoulder. If it's not too busy, chat to the bartender or people around you. Roosh has written extensively about finding the right area in a club and his advice is pretty solid.
Obviously clubs and bars aren't for everyone but they are probably the most usual place to hook up with girls so if you're in the game and don't go to clubs you are limiting yourself. I find that girls in a club are drawn to the guys that look like they are having a good time. If you convince yourself before you even go into a club that you aren't going to have fun then you probably won't and it's a bit negative to make that assumption in the first place. Also I feel pretty accomplished when I pull a girl in the club especially if she's hot because I know that my game was tighter than the competition around me. There are few things more fun than making out with a girl in the club and winking at the beta orbiters that were following her around all night and buying her drinks.
Dancing in clubs especially here in England you never see any Fred Astaire types anyway. It's mostly just drunk people bobbing around to the beat so don't worry and try to relax mate!
Obviously clubs and bars aren't for everyone but they are probably the most usual place to hook up with girls so if you're in the game and don't go to clubs you are limiting yourself. I find that girls in a club are drawn to the guys that look like they are having a good time. If you convince yourself before you even go into a club that you aren't going to have fun then you probably won't and it's a bit negative to make that assumption in the first place. Also I feel pretty accomplished when I pull a girl in the club especially if she's hot because I know that my game was tighter than the competition around me. There are few things more fun than making out with a girl in the club and winking at the beta orbiters that were following her around all night and buying her drinks.
Dancing in clubs especially here in England you never see any Fred Astaire types anyway. It's mostly just drunk people bobbing around to the beat so don't worry and try to relax mate!