There's no such thing as failure. You've been around on the boards long enough to know that.
Going out and approaching is fun.
Fun=enjoying your life
That's it. This isn't a competition. 13 approaches in a night is great. I can't remember the last time I did that. I usually max out at 10. That said, I'm 31 and you're pretty young if I remember correctly. This is the time in your life when you should be approaching 10 girls every day.
As you run these approaches, take little moments to pull back and observe the interaction. Watch her responses. Think of these approaches as trial and error, not "winning or failing". Look for patterns. If you say something and she doesn't respond well, stop saying those things to girls.
Going out and approaching is fun.
Fun=enjoying your life
That's it. This isn't a competition. 13 approaches in a night is great. I can't remember the last time I did that. I usually max out at 10. That said, I'm 31 and you're pretty young if I remember correctly. This is the time in your life when you should be approaching 10 girls every day.
As you run these approaches, take little moments to pull back and observe the interaction. Watch her responses. Think of these approaches as trial and error, not "winning or failing". Look for patterns. If you say something and she doesn't respond well, stop saying those things to girls.