Quote: (11-30-2012 11:02 AM)slubu Wrote:
Quote: (11-29-2012 09:53 PM)Roosh Wrote:
There's a lot of guys here that will say it shouldn't matter who she fucks and that if she's giving you good sex then enjoy it and so on as long as you don't wife her up. In theory I have no problem with that point of view, but in reality I just don't feel comfortable banging a girl who is banging other guys. You can call that beta or traditional or whatever, but my dick goes soft if I know she's getting slammed by other dicks and taking them in her mouth.
There are too many girls out there who don't feel comfortable banging more than one guy at a time that I find it absolutely unnecessary to share a girl.
Exactly. This is the point I was making about 4 cocks in succession versus 4 cocks simultaneously. I'm ok with the former, and the latter makes me uneasy.
Quote: (11-30-2012 10:36 AM)Walderschmidt Wrote:
Quote: (11-30-2012 10:15 AM)Yams Wrote:
Quote: (11-29-2012 02:55 PM)slubu Wrote:
I wake up in the middle of the night and start putting some random clues together in my head about her potential slutiness. My mind on overdrive, I think about all the things I've mistakenly overlooked:
- she's been in two threesomes before
- she sends me dirty text pics
- she's in art school
- she's told me I have cart blanche to do whatever I want to her in bed
- she drinks, does coke, is a party girl when she goes out
- masturbates in the passenger seat of my car while driving
- enjoys and is quite talented at giving head
- her friends are sluts
- questioned me numerous times if i'm banging other girls
- she has a small tattoo above her vag
That is a huge list of things to overlook. I'm guessing that you ignored these things because it took 3 whole dates to bang her.
I'd feel like a chump if it took three dates to bang this girl when she is banging 4 other dudes. I would assume it didn't take them three dates.
It's not as if all those things were done/disclosed on date 1. She masturbated in my car, found out her friends were sluts and that she does coke/parties a lot all in the last 5 days. As for the dates, as long as I'm physically escalating and advancing each time I don't mind. Fingered first date, BJ next date, bang 3rd.
Honest question.
How do you know for sure the other girls you sre seeing are not doing the exact same thing... Are you more upset you caught her?
This day and age it's very hard for me to believe you can tell if a girl is a "good girl" or not. Unless she is a virgin you may as well assume she is seeing 3 dudes simultaneously.
Just assume every girl you are seeing is sleeping with 3 dudes. Chances are you're right.
This reminds me of when my best friend slept with a girl... On the day she got engaged. As soon as you believe you have a "good girl"... Chances are you just got played.
FYI: no cynicism in this pos, simply put,, if we can juggle 3-4 girls without getting caught, why can't a girl. It's even easier for her.