[DrZoidberg]

CMan that was a good answer too. that's actually how I usually handle it most of the time. last night I went out and this girl's sister was doing that over and over, at first I did like you said and kept it simple. then later that night, I met the sister's boyfriend, and the first fucking words out of his mouth was the same asinine threat. asinine because first of all, the guy was old and in deathly shape, I would've leveled the motherfucker easy, and also because that's just a really dumb shit thing to say to someone you've just met. he got up in my face a bit but was smiling and not using threatening body language so I just played it cool and started ignoring them, then by the end of the night they were both cool with me. I just hate when people are threatening me or assuming I'm a bad person, even if they're not serious it gets on my fucking nerves.