I never do P4P.
But a 4-year drought; I'd go get it out of my system, Man.
After that, start working on your attitude. Find a suitable therapist. And start approaching - if you can't even bring yourself to try, you can't really get upset about results. It'd do you a lot of good to not take women and life so seriously. They call it a game because it's fun - make it fun. It really seems like you need to get in touch with your playful side again.
Also, do you work out? If not, it might do you some wonders. Make you look better. Great for your emotional being. Relieve some of that stress and resentment.
I want to commend you on your post though. I can really sense your frustration, but it takes a lot of courage to post something like this and be as honest as you are. That's a great first step towards improvement. Now that you've got all the bullshit out of the way, have admitted the problem, and have asked for help, there's nowhere to go but up.
Now you just need to harness your position and find the motivation to make small, incremental improvements in your life.
Meanwhile, get some P4P - just don't use it as a crutch for too long. In and out to "sow your royal oats." lol
I personally find strip clubs are a great place to remind yourself of the playful, feminine side of women - many strippers are indeed very playful and very feminine. Just ignore the bullshit that goes with it and remind yourself what it's like to have a good time. Never, ever take those bitches seriously, especially if you have no game.
But a 4-year drought; I'd go get it out of my system, Man.
After that, start working on your attitude. Find a suitable therapist. And start approaching - if you can't even bring yourself to try, you can't really get upset about results. It'd do you a lot of good to not take women and life so seriously. They call it a game because it's fun - make it fun. It really seems like you need to get in touch with your playful side again.
Also, do you work out? If not, it might do you some wonders. Make you look better. Great for your emotional being. Relieve some of that stress and resentment.
I want to commend you on your post though. I can really sense your frustration, but it takes a lot of courage to post something like this and be as honest as you are. That's a great first step towards improvement. Now that you've got all the bullshit out of the way, have admitted the problem, and have asked for help, there's nowhere to go but up.
Now you just need to harness your position and find the motivation to make small, incremental improvements in your life.
Meanwhile, get some P4P - just don't use it as a crutch for too long. In and out to "sow your royal oats." lol
I personally find strip clubs are a great place to remind yourself of the playful, feminine side of women - many strippers are indeed very playful and very feminine. Just ignore the bullshit that goes with it and remind yourself what it's like to have a good time. Never, ever take those bitches seriously, especially if you have no game.
Beyond All Seas
"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling
"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling