I've posted questions along these lines here before (asking for advice re: ONE particular girl)..
and guys told me to drop her.
They were right.
And the longer you hang to your fantasy the harder it'll be to shake loose later. The difference is that you'll have wasted a ton of time and energy. Not have what you want. And moreover it's an opportunity cost. You could've been gaming other women. It just really f's up your self-esteem and game to pine like this.
If that doesn't convince you, another way to look at it, is that if you EVER want to get with her, the best thing you can do is to forget her and really not care. And guess what, when you really achieve that, is when she will come for you. The beautiful part is that you probably won't give a F at that point.
and guys told me to drop her.
They were right.
And the longer you hang to your fantasy the harder it'll be to shake loose later. The difference is that you'll have wasted a ton of time and energy. Not have what you want. And moreover it's an opportunity cost. You could've been gaming other women. It just really f's up your self-esteem and game to pine like this.
If that doesn't convince you, another way to look at it, is that if you EVER want to get with her, the best thing you can do is to forget her and really not care. And guess what, when you really achieve that, is when she will come for you. The beautiful part is that you probably won't give a F at that point.