[Urban Renaissance Man]

It's really a touchy situation. I mean, on one had you should compliment the girl you're after, so that she at least knows you're interested and to give her some mild flattery. I'm just talking about the over flattery that a lot of guys do. The hand cuffing, the over the top descriptions of her beauty, etc. Those are counter productive. They not only hurt the guys chances who are offering her the compliments, but also any guys approaching her in the future.