Yeah, the take away as stated is the "sweet spot." Understanding yourself and what you are naturally attracted to/mesh well with and like other girls to have (book smarts, personality, intelligence, outgoing or introverted, etc.), as well as coincidentally what you tend to attract usually (and what you need to therefore change or not to, to start getting what you like.) I like a hot chick as well, but sometimes yes it does take too much energy/investment when it comes to the roi I'm getting. I'd MUCH rather have a chick with a great personality and good looks and contains REAL depth that I don't have to play games with, then a chick with a BANGING body who has absolutely nothing going on upstairs or an attitude.
Yes, its important to go after different types-cause you will learn more about yourself and what you are attracted to....however, obviously don't waste your time on something your semi interested in or not fully attracted to. That's just a waste, I prefer girls with substance but thats just me.
Yes, its important to go after different types-cause you will learn more about yourself and what you are attracted to....however, obviously don't waste your time on something your semi interested in or not fully attracted to. That's just a waste, I prefer girls with substance but thats just me.