While learning Game can help improve your odds of getting any kind of women everyone has a sweet spot: a target demographic that is much easy to pull from than others. My sweet spot in the US is: upper-middle class women in the 25 – 35 age range, who is somewhat successful in life, has traveled a bit, has above average intelligence, and not very religious. I tend to do a lot better with white women than non-white and specifically with blondes. Why? Well, those traits basically describes me, so it’s very easy to build comfort and rapport with them and the blondes just like my exotic look.
Now, I find a wide range of women attractive and I don’t really care about lot of those things but the reality is it’s a lot easier for me to pickup an 8+, 25 yrs old, career girl from a classy bar than 6+, 20 yr old, cashier from McDonalds. The cashier may very well find me attractive but we just won’t have a lot in common and building comfort and rapport will take a tremendous amount of work on my part.
Without realizing it I have been my own worse enemy lately. Somehow I started believing I could pickup any kind of women and actually started putting in a lot of effort doing so. The results has been terrible. The amount of work I have put into trying to get lower quality girls outside of my sweet spot is embarrassing. This really hit home this weekend in Key West at Fantasy Fest where the best time I had was with a woman that fell right in the middle of my sweet spot. It was almost effortless compared to the college girls and other “trashy” girls I was trying to game earlier in the evening with very limited success. After that experience I realized it’s just not worth it working outside of your sweet spot. You will have to put in a lot of work to overcome the mismatch between you and the women and it will be something you are always going to be fighting. But you are really not fighting the women, you are actually fighting yourself: who you are. When we meet someone that closely matches up with us on a core level it’s much easier to interact and get along with these people and more so with women: women instinctively know their kind.
I believed that if I worked hard enough and acquired enough skill I could overcome this, and I can sometimes, but the price is just too high and what I get in return is just not worth it. I have taken a beating fighting myself and all this time the clock just keeps on ticking down. Today is the day I quit, I have just grown too tired of fighting myself...
Now, I find a wide range of women attractive and I don’t really care about lot of those things but the reality is it’s a lot easier for me to pickup an 8+, 25 yrs old, career girl from a classy bar than 6+, 20 yr old, cashier from McDonalds. The cashier may very well find me attractive but we just won’t have a lot in common and building comfort and rapport will take a tremendous amount of work on my part.
Without realizing it I have been my own worse enemy lately. Somehow I started believing I could pickup any kind of women and actually started putting in a lot of effort doing so. The results has been terrible. The amount of work I have put into trying to get lower quality girls outside of my sweet spot is embarrassing. This really hit home this weekend in Key West at Fantasy Fest where the best time I had was with a woman that fell right in the middle of my sweet spot. It was almost effortless compared to the college girls and other “trashy” girls I was trying to game earlier in the evening with very limited success. After that experience I realized it’s just not worth it working outside of your sweet spot. You will have to put in a lot of work to overcome the mismatch between you and the women and it will be something you are always going to be fighting. But you are really not fighting the women, you are actually fighting yourself: who you are. When we meet someone that closely matches up with us on a core level it’s much easier to interact and get along with these people and more so with women: women instinctively know their kind.
I believed that if I worked hard enough and acquired enough skill I could overcome this, and I can sometimes, but the price is just too high and what I get in return is just not worth it. I have taken a beating fighting myself and all this time the clock just keeps on ticking down. Today is the day I quit, I have just grown too tired of fighting myself...