Hope this isn't a troll posting.
I'm in love with a chick right, however:
1) I honestly don't want to stop fucking other girls. It's such a rush to fuck a new girl, or go to a new country and camp out for a few months, open yourself up completely to the experience and fuck new chicks. Not even just on a sexual level, but just having freedom is awesome! To put it bluntly, I'm not mature enough for marriage. I still wanna fuck and have freedom to go wherever I want.
2) Everyone I know that's in a marriage is unhappy. That goes for 99% of my co workers, my friends and family. Everyone. It's possible to be married and be happy for a few years, but kids exacerbate the unhappiness I think. In today's selfish western society, marriage is a relic from the past that just doesn't fit into our highly globalized lives anymore.
Companionship, partnership, love...these are things you can have w/o the wife and kids. Kids I think ruin marriage. But they also give your life meaning in ways you never thought possible as a single guy.
You don't have to get married to have kids. My parents split up when I was 4 and they both raised me, just not together. You can pass on your genes and and not have to be in an unhappy marriage together. If it's a happy marriage then great, but it's a terrible thing to raise a kid in a house of yelling, fighting, hitting and passive aggression between husband and wife. That was my mother's second marriage as well as my fathers. I had to become a stronger kid a lot earlier because my parents lived in different cities, but that may just be the way childhood will have to be from now on. So long Mayberry.
I'm in love with a chick right, however:
1) I honestly don't want to stop fucking other girls. It's such a rush to fuck a new girl, or go to a new country and camp out for a few months, open yourself up completely to the experience and fuck new chicks. Not even just on a sexual level, but just having freedom is awesome! To put it bluntly, I'm not mature enough for marriage. I still wanna fuck and have freedom to go wherever I want.
2) Everyone I know that's in a marriage is unhappy. That goes for 99% of my co workers, my friends and family. Everyone. It's possible to be married and be happy for a few years, but kids exacerbate the unhappiness I think. In today's selfish western society, marriage is a relic from the past that just doesn't fit into our highly globalized lives anymore.
Companionship, partnership, love...these are things you can have w/o the wife and kids. Kids I think ruin marriage. But they also give your life meaning in ways you never thought possible as a single guy.
You don't have to get married to have kids. My parents split up when I was 4 and they both raised me, just not together. You can pass on your genes and and not have to be in an unhappy marriage together. If it's a happy marriage then great, but it's a terrible thing to raise a kid in a house of yelling, fighting, hitting and passive aggression between husband and wife. That was my mother's second marriage as well as my fathers. I had to become a stronger kid a lot earlier because my parents lived in different cities, but that may just be the way childhood will have to be from now on. So long Mayberry.