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(10-22-2012 01:26 PM)Beyond Borders Wrote:  

(10-22-2012 11:28 AM)Snowflake Wrote:  

I could see this technique working but how do you avoid being classified as a beta comforter?

Good question, but I don't really have an answer for you. I'm simply not that guy so I'd never be confused as him. Not trying to be cocky or dismissive - just don't really know how to explain it.

Not to mention that a "beta comforter," as you put it, would most likely do everything he could to trash-talk her boyfriend with her and thus cock-block himself.

I'm not a fan of this. It is too passive and relies too much on the female. Maybe for a long term strategy to break the boyfriend down over time. I think what success this strategy has had was predetermined before the meet and had little to do with the work you are doing. For a female to to meet you for drinks and then bash her boyfriend unprovoked, she has made up her mind to get some strange already and it simply your job not to fuck it up.

I prefer a more active strategy where you are creating the doubt in a cocky and playful manner. You plant the seed, water it a bit with some good one liners here and there, then step back and let the hamster do what it does best.

I do agree with your way of never talking shit about her boyfriend. That will only put her on the defensive and cause her to defend him.

To each his own, we all have our own techniques.