I think it's important to distinguish between "hitting" a woman and beating or battering a woman.
Hitting a woman, most commonly with an open-handed slap ala Sean Connery, can definitely produce the 'gina tingles if used from time to time. It's a direct reminder of your masculine power. It's just enough violence to make a girl snap out of her bitchy frame and reminds her that her role in the relationship is by nature a submissive one. Objectively, 99% of women will say that this is unacceptable, and that you should never hit a woman. Ok. I think we all know by now how much stock to put in what women say about how they want to be treated by men. The reality is that the vast majority of women will respond positively to occasionally being bitch slapped when they are...being bitches. Letting a woman bitch you out is a major TURN OFF for her. With every second that goes by with her laying in to you verbally, you're being emasculated. If this becomes a habit, the relationship will die, because she will no longer be able to respect your masculinity. This does not mean I'm saying you should slap your girl every time you get into an argument, but that you should be prepared to if she starts to get out of control and isn't responding to your efforts to verbally end the argument. If you have to bitch slap your girl more than a handful of times per year, that's a bad sign.
Now, battering a woman is an entirely different matter, and I think is totally unacceptable. These are the guys who like to get drunk and beat the shit out of their wives for no reason except to feel dominant. There's no reason to ever beat a woman, and you shouldn't have to resort to severe and repeated violence to maintain a dominant frame. Doing so is indicative of massively weak game and insecurity.
But occasionally slapping a girl in response to her acting like a bitch? That's in a totally different league, and used in moderation will produce beneficial effects on the relationship.
Hitting a woman, most commonly with an open-handed slap ala Sean Connery, can definitely produce the 'gina tingles if used from time to time. It's a direct reminder of your masculine power. It's just enough violence to make a girl snap out of her bitchy frame and reminds her that her role in the relationship is by nature a submissive one. Objectively, 99% of women will say that this is unacceptable, and that you should never hit a woman. Ok. I think we all know by now how much stock to put in what women say about how they want to be treated by men. The reality is that the vast majority of women will respond positively to occasionally being bitch slapped when they are...being bitches. Letting a woman bitch you out is a major TURN OFF for her. With every second that goes by with her laying in to you verbally, you're being emasculated. If this becomes a habit, the relationship will die, because she will no longer be able to respect your masculinity. This does not mean I'm saying you should slap your girl every time you get into an argument, but that you should be prepared to if she starts to get out of control and isn't responding to your efforts to verbally end the argument. If you have to bitch slap your girl more than a handful of times per year, that's a bad sign.
Now, battering a woman is an entirely different matter, and I think is totally unacceptable. These are the guys who like to get drunk and beat the shit out of their wives for no reason except to feel dominant. There's no reason to ever beat a woman, and you shouldn't have to resort to severe and repeated violence to maintain a dominant frame. Doing so is indicative of massively weak game and insecurity.
But occasionally slapping a girl in response to her acting like a bitch? That's in a totally different league, and used in moderation will produce beneficial effects on the relationship.
[size=8pt]"For I reckon that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us.”[/size] [size=7pt] - Romans 8:18[/size]