Quote: (10-08-2012 08:33 AM)P Dog Wrote:
Leading on from this, if a girls not digging a guy as much as first because of his race, it's either because of class issues or because she assumes that every guy of that race is beta (ie. Asians and Indians). From what I've seen, the later is much easier to deal with.
Well, it could go deeper - maybe she's so used to seeing a certain group as low class, that even if she met one who was demonstrably not low class, she still wouldn't be attracted to him. It's sort of like a chick in a top tier sorority who meets a guy who's cool, but he's in a lame frat. In that situation, I'd still bet against him, given what I've seen, unless the logistics are very favorable. Chicks tend not to take risks like that - in that situation, the low status of his frat trumps all. Unless he's got Clinton level charisma, or she knows him as a campus celebrity, he's probably outta luck. Of course, it depends on how open-minded, hippy-dippy she is - there will be outliers who don't care as much about such hierarchies, whether it's frats or race.
As for the Asian-Indian thing, true, but he has to be *quick* to dispel that notion. Else the chick will write him off very quickly, as girls do with any guy they deem lame. For them, it's probably even more important to be jacked and stylish.
One forum member, who I've met, doesn't look at all like his ancestry, a group that even politically correct people feel comfortable hating on. He's told me it's happened where a girl was into him, and he disclosed his true background, and girls lost interest right after. Which is pretty crazy to me - that just finding out his background caused a loss of attraction. Assuming he relayed this to me accurately, of course.